Last week, just before Millie turned 26 months, I set some boundaries on how often she can nurse.
I was really hesitant to do it, but Millie’s separation anxiety was at an all-time high. I wasn’t able to take Lainey to school, I couldn’t go to the bathroom unless she was still latched, and I had to cook my omelet one-handed since I couldn’t set her down, even after a 30-minute nursing session. 😅
We were in deep waters, and I feared we were only going to get deeper if we didn’t set some boundaries. Previously, Millie could nurse 24/7. She would nurse multiple times per day, estimating for 2+ hours per day. I decided to set a limit of 3x per day (upon waking, before nap, before bed). This still amounts to about 1-2 hours per day.
I knew she wasn’t nursing for nourishment, it was for comfort. As much as I wanted to keep supporting her in this way, I knew we needed to start showing her we can support her in other ways.
I have been shocked at how well Millie has been handling the transition. Afternoons can be a little tough on her, but we have also found new support strategies. She LOVES skin-to-skin, and our connection feels even stronger.
I am so proud of her. She’s handling this transition so well. We have been through so much together, and our bond is so inseparable. She was with me through my darkest and toughest days, in the womb and outside of it. She was (and continues to be) my light and angel through it all.
I am so proud of you, Millie Rose! You’re my girl, and I love our bond so much!! I love you to infinity and beyond!! ✨🤟🏻💚💜
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